By Sule Mohammed Utenwojo
If the truth must be told, the dream of anyone in a relationship is to end well ,either in marriage or to end on a good note as not all relationships end in marriage. If you see the following signs in your relationship, note that it will not lead to marriage. Don’t force it:
1. He/she avoids meeting your family. In a relationship that will lead to marriage,both parties cannot wait to meet their family members. But if one partner begins to avoid this, then marriage is uncertain. Take me to your family, she says not now. Take me to your people,he says not now. Hmmm. Run for your life.
2. Breaking up and making up: You break up always. Yesterday you broke up, today you are back. Tomorrow again you break up..hmmmm . No be juju be that. You cannot stay a week or month without breakup and make up.
3.No daily communication. Communication can take place via phone calls, whatsapp, Facebook, Twitter ( now x) etcetera. Communication can come from anyone. It must not be the man all the time. The denominator is; no relationship works without communication.
4. He/she never posted anything about you on social media. It is not a sin to post pictures of yourself being together on social media. When you post, he/she would tell you to delete it.
5. If he/she is not jealous. It means there is another person out there. Even God is a jealous God.
6. You don’t enjoy spending time together.
7. No discussion about future goals. If her discussion is always urgent 2k, then be careful.
8. Your partner does not include you in their future plan. This is just a corollary to number 7.
9.The relationship is all about sex. Only sex makes you to miss  him or her. Hmmm
10. You don’t work for each other. Two partners on the road to marriage are to support each other, work for each other so that they succeed together. If this is absent,then such a marriage is questionable.
11. You cannot tolerate each other 12. No trust etc.
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