1. *She Thinks You’re Responsible for Her Happiness*: If your girlfriend constantly complains that you’re not making her happy, it’s a red flag. No one can make another person happy; you can only contribute to their happiness. If she makes you feel guilty for not meeting her happiness expectations, it’s likely she’s using you.
2. *She Compares You to Others*: If your girlfriend frequently compares you to other guys, it’s a sign that she’s not genuinely interested in you. She might say things like, “My ex was more successful than you” or “Other guys spoil their girlfriends more than you spoil me.” This behavior indicates that she’s evaluating you based on what you can do for her rather than valuing you as a person.
3. *She Only Reaches Out When She Needs Something*: If your girlfriend only contacts you when she needs financial help, emotional support, or favors, but ignores you otherwise, it’s likely she’s using you for her convenience.
4. *She Doesn’t Show Appreciation or Support*: If your girlfriend consistently disregards your efforts to support her, doesn’t show gratitude for what you do, and only focuses on what she wants from you, it’s a sign that she’s taking advantage of you.
If you notice these signs in your relationship, it may be time to reevaluate and prioritize your own emotional well-being.